Dating is a unique experience, where the couples are happy about meeting someone new, but at the same time scared of doing anything wrong that will upset their date. You need to take care of your excitement, anxiety, nervousness, and fear of upsetting her.
Increase Your Confidence
No, you surely don't have to work on your feelings separately, rather it will be a waste of time. All you need is confidence, which will help you in overcoming all your negative thoughts. What is confidence? In fact the answer to this is quite simple.
It might have happened with many of you guys where you feel you messed up things while dating. You pre-prepared yourself and practiced a lot about what to say and what not to her in front of her. However, when you meet her, things work the other way. You stammer and hesitate to ask any question. She is too good, and you don't want to ask anything that will make her feel that you are a jerk. You want her to meet you again, and don't want to do anything where she will not be happy to share her number with you.
When your mind is confident, you will look straight into her eyes and ask her questions, which she will be happy to answer. If you commit mistakes, there is no harm in correcting yourself and laugh over the matter. This will make the atmosphere quite cheerful and happy. She will be happy to enjoy your company, as she knows that she is with the right person.
Take care of small things
Ensure that you do not over do things, as it might upset her and pass on wrong information about you and your attitude. Smart guys, will give her enough time to talk about herself, especially if she is of shy nature. Don't expect her to like you, if you directly ask her about her opinion on sex and the positions she prefers in bed.
In fact no one will like such a question, especially on the first meet. She will think that you are just like another guy, who is interested in indulging in sex with her. Instead, let her introduce herself properly, and talk about her likings and disliking. Don't shoot questions one after the other as if she is attending an interview.
If you are meeting her in a restaurant, then take care of a few things that will make her feel good. Allow her to choose a place, where she will be comfortable to sit, as it will help her to relax and think positive about you. No one is interested in knowing your life and the problems you had to face to reach the position where you are today. Let her choose the food and drinks, as you hardly know her.
Overcome Your Nervousness
It's fine if you are nervous about the first meeting. In fact it's good if you feel so. It indicates that you are interested in some serious relationship and don't want to lose her, if she is the one for you. Do the right things that will make her smile, so that she will enjoy every moment being with you. She will have no issues meeting you, once she is quite comfortable with you and your approach.
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